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Had 3rd surgery on Wednesday and morphine again caused the BP and heart rate to drop. Made me feel very, very groggy and I was so sick on the way home...had to pull into the side of the road (apologies for being graphic)!!!!!! I am going to tell them to put it in BOLD on my chart not to give me morphine again should I have further surgery. Just wondering if anyone else had a similar experience and what other form of pain relief did you use and was it effective? Energy levels are a bit down today but I forget I have had 3 anaesthetics in 3 months...my poor body has been through alot. Ah well, just have to be extra nice to myself so Hope everyone else is doing well. Micheline.

Ok - not foobs ....but real live happy beagle pups and I'm in love with them. I'm sorry I have not been following any of the forums or answering any posts as I'm so wrapped up in my new pups, Coco and Bonnie. Its like having kids again, cant take my eyes of them, not just to protect them but because they are so adorable. They have given me a new perspective on life and I'm not going around thinking the whole time about my breast cancer. I'm living now and enjoying life more. The conversations in the house is all about the pups and when we have visitors its all about the pups, not about my cancer which is great! Its another dimension on how our brains have something else to concentrate on and how happy I feel inside. Aside from being diagnosed with BC I also am not working which for me after 35 years working felt like I was missing something. Now I realize that so many other things make you happy and content, work was a means to an end really, other than the relationships you develop whilst working. My children are for the most part up and running, so this is my empty nest syndrome as some one put it to me and I'm loving every minute of it. Hugs to all and Mimiraffo I will give you a call soon, sorry I missed you recently. Ger

Today I got great news...after 3 attempts, they managed to get clear margins! I have to have radiotherapy for a few weeks but I am preserving my breast. It has been a roller coaster since April 4th...but life is so freaking good now! I have so much to be thankful for. Whilst my journey still continues...I hope all of you are doing well on yours. Bless each and everyone of you. I will keep looking in on you all. Micheline.

I WOULD LOVE TO HEAR FROM ANYONE OUT THERE WHO LIKE ME IS NEARING THE END OF THEIR TREATMENT OF HERCEPTIN MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS glucosesweet2002@yahoo.com

Hi Everyone I am very new to this so apologies for lackof/too much information! I am 25 and BRCA1 positive. I have decided to have a double mastectomy and reconstruction surgery next month. I tested positive 4 years ago so plenty of time to think about it and it is the right time for me. I intend to get the back muscle with implant reconstruction. I was just wondering if anyone had any tips or useful information that they think may be of use to me for both in hospital and recovery at home? Also, I am looking to have this done in the Mater Private - although not sure if my health insurance will cover it (or most of it!) I have Level 1 hospital with Aviva. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas of coverage and costs if not covered? Any help or information is truely appreciated. Thank you all

Anyone know how long you have to wait before getting reconstruction? What are the medical reasons for delaying this surgery? Am still on Herceptin till next Feb. Decision already made that I will have Diep flap but am hearing different things about how long I have to wait to get this done. Am interested in medical reasons, I know I'll have to face some sort of waiting list.

Hi all Wow I never knew Breast Cancer was a waiting game. I have been diagnosed in July and its now October, I'm still waiting on some decisions. I have been on hormone treatment and its been great, but I can't stand the waiting game. I need to get on with my life. How do I do that when I know nothing. I am seeing the surgeon tomorrow and I'm hoping I will have some answers to my questions. Please God its gonna be some sorta plan or other. I have had a couple of job offers and I can't accept them cause I dont know whats going on............................I want to know I really want to know.. I'm desperate now.......I'm mean mama now..let me go thru the process and get thru it without too much fuss.. Sadly yours Ger

Hi guys My surgeon says I'm a tribute to Femara, meaning I've responded so well to the drug I can sell it......Here's to Femara!!! hip hip hooray! Ger xxx

Hi Would love to hear from any ladies who underwent recon after mastectomy. I had mastectomy 5 years ago and had recon done with tissues expander and implant, one year later developed bad infection resulting in removal of implant and inserting another to save my skin? it was all done so quickly and i really did'nt have much choice. Anyway now 2 years on im having more problems with implant, so i am going to see my surgeon about new recon with the Latissimus Dorsi Flap from my back. What i would like to know, if any ladies that had this recon done are you happy with the result? do you have any problems after? The reason im anxious about this is because ive have been through so much and i feel this time this is my decision completely. I would be having my operation with Margaret O Donnell. Phyl.

HI Guys Just wondering if anyone out there who has had the DIEP reconstruction feels like the new boob is very heavy and almost like wearing an iron bra all day. I am 9 weeks over the op and would have thought that it would have softened by now but it still feels like a load of playdough stuck to my chest and its not a very pleasant feeling. Was back with PS and BS and both say it feels perfectly normal and the swelling will go down. Anyone got any idea when???? Its starting to really get me down as I am battling cording in my armpit/chest/arm as well and this is not helping. Sinéad x