Caring for someone with cancer
posted by abc@@@@1234
01 March 2021

Oesophageal Cancer

Last reply: 02 March 2023 06:47

My Father is 67 years old and was diagnosed in December 2020 with Advanced Oesophageal Cancer, we are devastated, my family’s lives are in turmoil and my father is trying to come to terms with a death sentence. He could not avail of immunotherapy drugs that are known to help slow the growth of tumours as these drugs are not available to him for the type of cancer he has. What is wrong in this country? Why are we so behind? Why do we let people die without offering them the best possible help and care they need as these drugs could have helped prolong his life. Medical Cannabis is another drug that might have helped prolong his life but you have to meet a certain criteria to avail of Medical Cannabis as it states on mygov.ie, my Father has nothing to loose by trying any of these drugs but he can’t. My Father is not a number, he has a human right to access best possible care which should include medicine/drugs. As I’m typing this my father is dying in a hospital on his own and my family are helpless as we can’t help him.

This is for my Dad xxx love you

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commented by SheilaM
03 March 2021

03 March 2021 22:51

I’m really sorry to hear about your Dad and his lack of treatment. This must be so awful for you all. Sending you good wishes & virtual hugs xxx

commented by abc@@@@1234
04 March 2021

04 March 2021 23:47

Thanks 🙏 Sheila same to you xxx

commented by abc@@@@1234
08 March 2021

08 March 2021 21:48

My Father passed away on the 7th of March at 9.24pm, we were lucky as he got to spend his last few days at home with his family and we took good care of him RIP Dad we will always love ❤️ you and never forget you xxxxx sadly missed by your family and many friends ❤️

commented by lisa123
11 March 2021

11 March 2021 21:49

Very sorry to hear this , take care of yourselves and keep your dads memories close u will have them forever . Xx

commented by abc@@@@1234
13 March 2021

13 March 2021 12:01

Thanks 🙏 Lisa xx

commented by abc@@@@1234
27 April 2021

27 April 2021 03:39

I didn’t tell you the full story, as my father was diagnosed with bladder cancer in 2009 and he got the all clear but was going back to hospital every year to get checked and had a CT scan in July 2020 to check for cancer and his last appointment was in October 2020 in relation to the bladder cancer and he was told all was good, he was delighted, we were delighted, then in November 2020 he began having swallowing difficulties and was losing weight but all the medical professionals were telling him everything was good so he or we didn’t think there was anything wrong with him. He was put on acid reflux tablets for 2 weeks at first as they thought it might be acid reflux, symptoms persisted (swallowing difficulty) my Mother rang our Doctors again and they were going to prescribe another weeks course of acid reflux tablets, but I explained to my Mother that she needed to ring them back as something was not right and ask for a letter for A&E. My father went to A&E on the 7th of December 2020 and on the 8th of December all alone was told he had advanced oesophageal cancer with a mass of 35 to 40cm in his oesophagus and it had spread to his liver, what a bombshell, it’s unbelievable 😭

commented by abc@@@@1234
02 March 2023

02 March 2023 06:47

My fathers 2nd Anniversary is the 7th of March 2023 and we will never forget 😭😭😭😭😭😭

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