Breast cancer
posted by kasandra
11 December 2008

secondary breast cancer

Last reply: 05 May 2009 10:01

i had a mastectomy on the 7th of november this year and two weeks after the operation i was told that i have secondary cancer in femur and pelvis. this is very frightening and i am also on zometa and having radiotherapy this week i am 49 years of age and i would just like to know if there is any one out there living with this at the moment and what can i expect in the way of quality of life with regard to pain control and life expectancy
i would love to hear from any one with any advice

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commented by happy
12 December 2008

12 December 2008 02:28

Hi Kasandra,

Though not in the same boat as you, just wanted to say how sorry I am to to hear of your secondary spread, and so soon after your primary diagnosis. How unfair it all is.

I have heard that a secondary spread to the bones can be quite manageable, some even regard it as more a chronic condition. I believe you can live many years with a good quality of life. I know of women who living with it for many years.

This must all be such a shock to you. Hope you are doing ok.

commented by polly
14 December 2008

14 December 2008 12:37

kasandra,

I'm Sorry to hear about your current diagnosis. I'm in a similar boat and the good news is I'v been in this boat for six years and still paddling away with good quality of life when I pace myself.
I have secondaries in my lung since 2002. Secondaries are viewed more like a chronic illness now and the aim is to control the disease. Get plenty of rest I found that my brain needed as much rest as my body.
I wish you well, take care.
Polly

commented by kasandra
20 December 2008

20 December 2008 00:16

hi polly and happy

Thank you for replying I am glad to hear that you both know of people in the same posoition as myself. I am trying to come to terms with it at the moment and I am starting chemo on the 2nd of jan for four months. I have already had five sessions of radiation to releive pain and it seems to be working. I just hope i so not have and further secondaries i wonder is it common for it to up again some where else and if so how soon.

any way not to dwell on the negative i intend to keep going as best i can with the help of my family and friends

thanks again

kasandra

commented by happy
13 January 2009

13 January 2009 18:38

Hi Kasandra, How are you doing now? Hope you are feeling ok on the chemo. Do you what chemo drugs are on? Hope you had a good Christmas. x

commented by susie
13 January 2009

13 January 2009 19:21

Hi Kasandra,sorry to hear about your diagnosis,hope you are doin okay xx

commented by kasandra
05 May 2009

05 May 2009 10:01

Hi, There,

Iam now on my last treatment of chemo tomorrow, cant believe i have come so far, will continue on zometa and am going on hormone tretment, so hoping this will keep things at bay for a long time. I am now getting on with my life, and am keeping positive, hoping that it does not turn up in any organs..

thanks to all for your support

kasandra

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