Fear of cancer coming back

When cancer comes back, this is known as recurrence. A fear of recurrence can affect you both emotionally and physically. Some people may experience emotions such as worry, fear, anger and sadness. This fear can affect the way people behave and how they respond to situations. Some people may be on high alert and others may avoid following up on concerns or avoid talking about cancer.

Certain situations and events can trigger feelings of fear about recurrence:

• Around the time of appointments, scans and tests
• When you have new symptoms or symptoms similar to those when you were first diagnosed
• When other people are diagnosed with cancer
• The death of a family member of friend
• Reading or hearing media reports about cancer
• Visiting the hospital you were diagnosed or treated in

Knowing what situations make you worried can help. Recognising these situations and emotions will help you to develop coping mechanisms. It is natural to get worried at certain times but not every symptom is recurrence.

Talk about it

• Talking with a friend or family member about your feelings may help to ease some of the fear. Talking things over can help you make sense of your fears and the reasons behind them.
• Talking to others who have been through similar experiences and who understand the fear of recurrence can also be helpful. You can speak with others at support group meetings at your local cancer support centre or through the Irish Cancer Society Peer Support programme. Call our cancer nurses on Freephone 1800 200 700 if you would like to be put in touch with a Peer Support volunteer or if you need help finding support. 
• Talking to a counsellor may also help you. We fund free counselling through many cancer support centres and online. Call our Support Line or visit a Daffodil Centre for information. 
• Talking to doctors and nurses about your concerns and fears may help you to understand more about recurrence and to put your worries into perspective. Our cancer nurses will also be happy to listen and give information and support. You can call the nurses on Freephone 1800 200 700 or visit a Daffodil Centre.

Understand your follow-up care

Get to know your follow-up care plan and ask any questions if you're not sure about any part of it. 

You may not feel like going to follow-up appointments, especially if you are feeling anxious. But follow-up can give you the chance to ask questions, discuss any health problems and worries you have and get recommended checks. 

Knowing that your team is monitoring you closely can help reduce the fear of recurrence. Even when you do not have the same in-person contact with your team, it is important to know that you can still contact them with any concerns.